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I love my ex more then anything in the world and I can’t stand it. She definately doesn’t love me, and I have nothing but a small chance of ever rekindling. I’m never giong to find anyone like her, and just the thought of her moving on and eventually going to meet someone she does really love kills me. I’m helpless. Does anyone know what I can do about this?
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I love my ex more then anything in the world and I can’t stand it. She definately doesn’t love me, and I have nothing but a small chance of ever rekindling. I’m never giong to find anyone like her, and just the thought of her moving on and eventually going to meet someone she does really love kills me. I’m helpless. Does anyone know what I can do about this?
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you cant think like that- u have to think positively that your going to find the right person and the person you meet will be so much better than your ex. and put yourself out there more and don’t expect so many things and try not finding girls that is exactly like your ex. and most importantly move on
I’ve been there before and it hurts sooooo bad. I know it does. The only thing you can do is take it one day at a time and go out and do things. You’ll eventually get over the person and you’ll feel so much better. I was like that with an ex of mine and I never thought I’d get over him–it took me about 2yrs. But once I did, I moved on to something waaaaaaay better, got married and had a baby. And guess what? Now he’s still single and wishing for me. Don’t waste your time loving someone who doesn’t love you back. Life’s too short.
Yeah, get over it. Seriously take a step back from your emotional brain and think with your logical brain. “I am never going to find anyone like her”… Really? I can tell you right now that line of thought is total BS, there are LOTS of good women out there and this one doesn’t want you… So love her if you must but remember her lack of love for you is her deal not yours. You can not change an others emotions. Live your life, there are others, this one is not as special as you think. Focus less on how special she is and more on how special you are…