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Does a meaning in life come to a person naturally or is it something some people have and others don’t?
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Does a meaning in life come to a person naturally or is it something some people have and others don’t?
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Everybody has one.
How you find it: figure out what you do best and what gives you the most satisfaction. If it helps you and other people to grow, then it’s your meaning in life.
Christians typically discover their own personal “mission” through prayer and study, along with a lifetime of faithful and charitable participation in all of the work, worship, sacraments and devotions of the Church.
Two answers: to give meaning to life, we have to be purpose driven. We can select what to put in the driver seat, but it will probably be something we are good at.
Second answer, to have meaning , ones life must be worth something. That involves being a useful human.
It took me many years to figure out what I could do to make a difference in the world, and when I figured it out, I found life to be richer and deeper than ever.
Sorry I am unable to help you find your meaning in life.