Melanie asked:
How do you know if you love someone and you’re an infatuation junkie enjoying the chemicals highs and adrenaline (so you leave even though there’s still feelings) or you’re just afraid of being alone?
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How do you know if you love someone and you’re an infatuation junkie enjoying the chemicals highs and adrenaline (so you leave even though there’s still feelings) or you’re just afraid of being alone?
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you know when you love someone. it’s the truest purest feeling in the world, you can’t confuse it with any other feeling. when it’s there you are fully aware.
Go on a caravaning holiday with them in winter.
I have an ex wife who basically collects her men on the basis of fearing to be alone in the house. She loses interest in her men pretty quickly (she likes husbands…just not her own!) but she spend part of her time setting up the next one who will keep her company. She has told me that this is the reason for having a man in the house…to save her if someone breaks in…any man.
And she is so in love with herself that I don’t think love of someone else enters in to it.
Just speaking truth here, we get along just fine.
It’s natural to love the one you’re with when you can’t be with the one you love.
If you haven’t found that person you can’t imagine life without, it’s ok to “be afraid of being alone.”
Some people think that love grows over times, some thing its just there at first sight. No one can tell you what to think.
My advice would be to just be open with who ever you’re with. If you aren’t sure you love this person, tell them you’re having some issues with the relationship. Don’t rush into anything you’re not ready for (sex, steady relationships). There is nothing wrong with playing field! Unless you’re lieing in it (slut joke).
Just relax and let life go. Life is a fluid thing, let the waves take float you where they will. If you try to fight it, thinking too much about exactly where that is, you might never get there.
that’s my final word of advice about relationships. Hope things work out.
Well ask your self if your HAPPY? if you are then most likely your in the relationship for more then being alone. When you are in a relationship for the sake of being with someone you are just not that happy with anything that they do for you.
when you love someone you just do and its unconditional when you are afraid to be alone you know that too,that is when you just want someone around and it doesnt matter who, i am alone and i am not afraid , i love someone unconditionally and i know it. its a feeling, and its strong,and it doesnt go away. if it is love.
If you TRULY love someone you do things for another person for their benefit even if you don’t get anything out of it.
Lust(infatuation junkie) is SELFISH.
Having someone around just so they can give you company is SELFISH.
think about this when that person is around do you always hang on them do you want to do everything with them, do you want to go everywhere with them and not wait at home for them do you greet them at the door if this rings a bell then you need this person despertly