MBA Grad Student asked:
Why do sometimes when you really like or love someone, you get a warm, tingly feeling inside, almost like a feeling of complete relaxation and comfort when you are in that person’s presence?
Why do sometimes when you really like or love someone, you get a warm, tingly feeling inside, almost like a feeling of complete relaxation and comfort when you are in that person’s presence?
Is that a “real” feeling, or lust, or how can it be explained?
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a complication in the human mind
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um, for survival? people and animals need ways to survive so people can mate and take care of eachother. without love we would all be dead becuase no one would care enough to take care of others…
As a satisfactory emotion.
It’s called completion…
You always wanna see them. you dream, day dream, imagine, think, and are always wanting to be w/ them. Want to be their all. Whenever you see them be around any other person.. you are jealous. haha. ohh and you are crazy about them. you write notes to them (even when you dont give it to them) you just write them for the heak of it
It is the release of the testorones that your body gives off and the smell both from you and your partner. When the smell connects, you feel comfortable, just like if you smell something bad, you get annoyed easily and want to stay away from that person.
Its usually lust but you can also have a good feeling when you see your mother, child, father, friend or dog, it doesn’t mean you lust for them.
So the answer is a mixture of neurotransmitters are released, chief among these is dopamine.
Isn’t lust a “real” feeling?
It is a bunch of chemicals in your brain…like endorphins, etc.
When you see someone, if your brain determines that they have enough of the qualities that it requires for a mate…it sends out chemicals everytime you see that person.
Those chemicals feel good…because endorphins do just that…they make you feel relaxed, and happy. You, then, become addicted to those chemicals, so you make it a point see that person more often. Eventually, the chemicals stop having an affect on you, so you try to get closer, so-as to get a greater rush…
At some point, the brain stops sending out those chemicals. If at that point you have not developed a greater relationship with that person…you will probably break up. That is why infatuation is different from love. Infatuation is your brain getting you “high”…while love is developing a sense of respect and compatability with a person.
u cant rely explain it , its just a weird feeling
that warm feeling inside is a natural instinctive feeling that outdates lust. it is either nervousness or the result of your body sensing that somebody cares about you. it usually is real but that is only to an extent. there are several forms of love. friendly love, soulmate love, and family love, all can lead to those warm feelings. its made from a combination of hormones.
I would imagine lust is different to love
Being in love is probably hard to explain, its a deeper feeling than lust most definitely.
Wanting to be with that someone is naturally to be expected when you love someone, but for me at least its the sense of feeling that I have something money can’t buy, its a sacred bond, the feeling that this is way more special than anything else you have ever felt.
Real love is when the passion fades away of the initial attraction and after that you still want to be there for each other no matter what.
I don’t know, but it’s absolutely wonderful, isn’t it?!