ANGELINA52385 asked:
so i made a mistake and fell in love with another man i had been with my ex for 5 years and i was not to happy so i met someone else but what sucks is i want to move foward in life but im stuck because i feel like im in love with both of them and dont know what to do someone please help!!
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so i made a mistake and fell in love with another man i had been with my ex for 5 years and i was not to happy so i met someone else but what sucks is i want to move foward in life but im stuck because i feel like im in love with both of them and dont know what to do someone please help!!
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Pick one, then you will want the other.
Take a break. Be Single for a while.
Cry me a River.
They should both dump you. :D
Thats a tough one but I would have to say you left the other guy for a reason so try your hand at love again with the new guy.
i had the same thing happen a few years ago. be sure you just dont like new dude cus the grass is greaner and be real with yourself. you cant be “in love” with two people.. two things cant occupy the same space at the same time and “in love” is giving 100% of yourself and you cant give 100% twice so be real with yourself and figure who it is.
Choose the new one first. Then, if something goes wrong, go back to your ex. Or not. You weren’t that happy with him, remember? The ex had his chance.
You cannot possibly truly love two people. You want to possess the love of two people.
But, you don’t love them (on a level that I love anyway). Lust and the human emotions that want us to posses someone so nobody else can have them are very powerful emotions.
I hope you actually get the chance to know feel the kind of love I am talking about some day.
im in same position as you sister,its easy to stick with”the devil you know”and regretting it for not taking a chance on the new guy,,do you feel a sense of “commitment”to your ex cos of 5 year history?,the most obvious thing i could say is dump them both,but it aint that easy,good luck in whatever choice you make
You were never in love with the first or you would not have been so unhappy that you sought another.
The reason you stayed is that neither, had your full attention. Ppl who are unhappy leave, unless they don’t want to support themselves or can’t.
So your in real trouble now, you gone and talked yourself into loving two.
There is but one way to find out who your in love with and that is time, sure their both going to try hold you, men are competitive, ego trippers, so don’t let it go to your head that 2guys want you or 2 guys are in love/battle over you, because the choice is totally “YOURS” but only for the moment, as i said, in time one or both your guys will change and you could find yourself on the outside and broken hearted.
I’ve always noticed women who play this “love two guys” game usually end up picking the wrong one.